“Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well.” — 1 Thessalonians 2:8 (NIV)
One of the deepest desires in every human heart is to be fully known and fully loved. Yet, so often, we hide behind carefully constructed masks, afraid that if people really saw us—our struggles, doubts, quirks, and questions—they might pull away. But scripture shows us a different way: a way of Real Relationships.
When Paul wrote to the church in Thessalonica, he didn’t just teach theology from a distance. He shared his life with them. As 1 Thessalonians 2:8 tells us, “Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well.” Paul’s ministry wasn’t just about information. It was about connection. About walking alongside others in both joy and hardship.
This is a powerful reminder for us today. Real relationships aren’t built on pretending. They’re built when we let others see our authentic selves—the good and the not-so-good. When we are honest about our victories and our valleys, we create space for others to do the same.
In a world that’s quick to filter and edit every moment, authenticity can feel risky. But I’ve found over and over that when one person is courageous enough to be real, it gives others permission to lower their guard too. Vulnerability becomes contagious. And that’s where the beauty of Christian community shines brightest.
At Pittman Park, our value of Real Relationships means we strive to be a church where no one has to pretend. It’s okay to have questions. It’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to share your burdens—and to help carry someone else’s.
When we share our lives as Paul did, we reflect the love of Christ, who knows us completely and loves us anyway.
So this week, I want to challenge you:
- Who in your life needs to hear your real story?
- Who could be encouraged if you shared not just your highlight reel but your honest journey?
- And how can you create safe spaces for others to show up as their authentic selves?
Let’s be a church where authenticity leads to deeper connection and where Real Relationships reflect the radical, grace-filled love of God.
God bless,
Jonathan Smith
For Jesus. For People. For Community.